Marie Rebel’s prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday was “Comment: Take a comment that has been left on one your blog posts and turn it into a new post.” Being me, I of course couldn’t follow the rules. ~smirk~ I decided to take a recent Twitter exchange with the Wicked One herself, and use that instead! (And yes, I know they aren’t rules, just guidelines – but I like thinking of myself as a rule-breaker.) :-)
Here’s what started it all off:
So now it’s the first of May, which IS National Masturbation Month. (No really, I’ll wait while you go read all about it.) There’s even a Facebook event you can join: May is National Masturbation Month.
So, am I going to take up the challenge this year? Masturbate at least once a day, every day in the month of May?
I dunno. It’s a fun idea, but, as noted above, so much of my arousal is kink-based, and so much of that is driven by W. (Sometimes I wonder, when I am feeling blue and maudlin, if my sex drive would shrivel up and die if he wasn’t around to drive it.) Ad was a lot of help the couple times I did the challenge, spurring me on in silly ways (offering me odd toys, like a rubber chicken, for instance, or “assisting” by pinning my legs or putting a hand on my throat. Yum. The hand-on-throat part, not the rubber chicken.) And the couple of times W (or someone else) has suggested I masturbate for them, made it really hot. (Holy shit I just remembered a party in which a girlfriend was made to masturbate in front of all of us, very early on in my kink development…that was crazy hot!) But again, to do it for myself, without the kink…hmm.
On the other hand, I do love orgasms, and I don’t have any trouble or consternation in masturbating to get one (though I do still feel a wee bit ashamed, which, truth be told, is kind of hot in the right circumstance.) So maybe it would be a good thing to make myself do this.
I’m gonna give it some thought. Meanwhile, I’m gonna go rub one out to start the month of May right! (You know, just in case I decide to take up the challenge.) ;-)