Wicked Wednesday – Comment: Masturbation & Orgasms


Marie Rebel’s prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday was “Comment: Take a comment that has been left on one your blog posts and turn it into a new post.”  Being me, I of course couldn’t follow the rules. ~smirk~ I decided to take a recent Twitter exchange with the Wicked One herself, and use that instead! (And yes, I know they aren’t rules, just guidelines – but I like thinking of myself as a rule-breaker.) :-)

Here’s what started it all off:


And of course that made me think of Curvaceous Dee’s Wankfest Challenges, and my own, somewhat less-than-stellar attempts at it (though I think I may have completed it at least once!) tweet2 tweet3 tweet4 tweet5 tweet6 tweet7 tweet8 tweet9 tweet10

So now it’s the first of May, which IS National Masturbation Month. (No really, I’ll wait while you go read all about it.) There’s even a Facebook event you can join: May is National Masturbation Month.

So, am I going to take up the challenge this year? Masturbate at least once a day, every day in the month of May?

I dunno. It’s a fun idea, but, as noted above, so much of my arousal is kink-based, and so much of that is driven by W. (Sometimes I wonder, when I am feeling blue and maudlin, if my sex drive would shrivel up and die if he wasn’t around to drive it.) Ad was a lot of help the couple times I did the challenge, spurring me on in silly ways (offering me odd toys, like a rubber chicken, for instance, or “assisting” by pinning my legs or putting a hand on my throat. Yum. The hand-on-throat part, not the rubber chicken.) And the couple of times W (or someone else) has suggested I masturbate for them, made it really hot. (Holy shit I just remembered a party in which a girlfriend was made to masturbate in front of all of us, very early on in my kink development…that was crazy hot!) But again, to do it for myself, without the kink…hmm.

On the other hand, I do love orgasms, and I don’t have any trouble or consternation in masturbating to get one (though I do still feel a wee bit ashamed, which, truth be told, is kind of hot in the right circumstance.) So maybe it would be a good thing to make myself do this.

I’m gonna give it some thought. Meanwhile, I’m gonna go rub one out to start the month of May right! (You know, just in case I decide to take up the challenge.) ;-)





  1. Marie Rebelle

    I have decided – after discussing it with Master T of course – not to join the Masturbation Month this year. The orgasm race is still too fresh in my mind. But… I will be keeping an eye on you, to see whether you take up the challenge or not ;)

    Rebel xox

  2. Molly

    I am not joining in with masturbation month, not because I don’t think it is a good idea or that I don’t love masturbation… I do! I just seem to have lost the masturbation urge. I think spending 2 years living apart from sir took it’s masturbation toll on me and now I rarely tend to indulge unless doing it for him, which is not an uncommon event. Also like you I think my sex drive is very wrapped up in my kink now. I will try to write a post though about it as I think it is an important topic that deserves much more talking about.


  3. Curvaceous Dee

    I won’t be doing it this year (2008, 2010 and 2012 means I think I’ve got a good bi-annual thing going on) – but I hope everyone participating this year has a blast!

    xx Dee

  4. Lord Raven

    Sounds like a great idea to me. Hurm, might have to combine it with something else I have been thinking about, the scavenger hunt. Who know, but this could be a lot of fun


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