Sapiosexuality, by @_compersion_
For your reading pleasure, another post sent to me by a reader and Twitter friend, @_compersion_.
How to Bowl & Fish Into My Pants
In my mind the trick to sapiosexuality isn’t just being attracted to smart. It’s more about being able to use one’s intellect. Just spouting off information is a big turn off for me. In fact I find it a sign of low self esteem. And we all know confidence is sexy.
It 1st hit me watching my husband bowl. He wasn’t doing very well at all. After a while he stopped to think about what was actually happening. After that he started bowling strikes. I got very tingly and found myself even more attracted to him.
I get very turned on watching him sit at his desk thinking and working, whether it’s for his actual job or a hobby. His ability to use his intellect sends jolts of electricity through my body, usually making my clit pulse.
If one can use intellect to solve problems or move forward it makes sense to me that it can be applied to the body.
Just knowing sexual techniques isn’t much. But being able to adapt them to the individual, that’s hot.
As a last example, I’ve discovered the show on Animal Planet, River Monsters, is porn to me. There’s no nudity or sex involved. Watching Jeremy Wade use his brain to solve these fish mysteries revs me up. He uses his knowledge, adapts & changes to get what he wants.
Now what I want is a threesome with him & my husband.
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