#KinkoftheWeek – Bastinado

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I know I sound like a broken record, but I just can’t say it enough: I love the Kink of the Week! If you don’t read it, please do, I promise you will enjoy all the different perspectives on this crazy shit we do; and if you read it but don’t participate, please consider doing so – I so enjoy reading all the different thoughts & viewpoints, and I want to hear yours! :-)

This week’s posts on bastinado were no different. I was particularly surprised by CurvaceousDee’s post. She loves having her feet beat. I know I shouldn’t be surprised when someone likes something that I don’t enjoy, but I had never heard of anyone that actually likes bastinado. And then, to top it off, someone else, Kinky Mia, chimed in with a comment on Dee’s post saying that she likes it too.

Okay, so now I am rethinking my aversion to it.

<ahem>

I am well aware that this post and this “after” picture from that post:

And then...the laughter.

do not paint a picture of someone that hates what has just been done to her.  And, to be truthful, I think perhaps “hate” is too strong a word. It is…deeply painful. And it is not erotic to me in any sense of the word.  But there is something about it, the very punitive nature of it, that appeals to me in a completely different way than the things that make me hot. (That picture above is the silliness that happens once all the misery is over. Yeah, I like that too, but that doesn’t mean I liked what went on before!)

Anyway.

I asked for a “punishment” bastinado scene a while ago. I wanted a scene where something I had done (or not done) caused me to have punishment strikes that I would have to endure. Because, you know, I was being punished. I even asked W and Ad to put me in a particular bondage tie for it that I found online.  It didn’t work out, for one reason or another, but I kind of figure that this tie, from another scene we did, would be a better one anyway:

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And even more so with his bare foot on me:

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Freaking hot, right?

Oh wait, I’m talking about punishment and misery, not “things that make Jade hot.” (Oops.)

I was actually thinking about having my feet whipped during this scene. The shoes, of course, prevented it.

In thinking about it, the positions in the picture and the (awesome OHMYGOD scary freakin’ INTENSE) video in the post on Rebel’s Notes are probably more ideal positions for a good foot beating anyway.

Holy shit. Did I just say a “good” foot beating?

Hmm.

I never did get that “punishment” scene.

And I deserve punishment, right????

Kink of the Week

Comments

  1. Alex Reynolds

    I don’t know if my other comment worked or not, so if this is a duplicate, I apologize.
    I enjoyed reading about the push-pull, like/don’t like feeling that you have towards this kind of play. I experience that with a couple of activities (most notably hand tawsing) and it’s somehow more exciting if it isn’t entirely enjoyable, or even more desirable because of that!
    Your tie with the purple rope in the photos you included is a really hot position. :D
    <3 Alex

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    1. Jade Post author

      It didn’t come thru, no worries.

      A lot of pain play is like that for me. Moments of “Oh fuck NO” interspersed by, “But wait, why are you stopping?!?” I think much of that has to do with something you touched on in your post – I may not always like the physical sensation, but there’s something that grabs me psychologically about submitting to it. And, as you noted also, there is something…dark…about bastinado (punishment is not a place we play in much, so that element certainly has it charge for me.)

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      1. Soom

        Hi!
        It’s good to see the photos again… soo hot! Would love to see you in more punishment scenes like this in the future.
        Kisses,
        Soom

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  2. Sammi

    There are other things I think I’d enjoy/not enjoy, that don’t deal with my feet. Except toe sucking :-) It has been interesting reading the different perspectives on this!

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