Monthly Archives: January 2014

February Photofest Challenge

Jan 31, 2014 | Posted by in February Photofest | 0

I wasn’t sure about taking part in Molly’s February Photo Challenge when I first read about it. Not because it doesn’t sound fun or interesting, and certainly not because I don’t like a challenge, as my creation of Boobies & Bondage Across America, the Alphabet Challenge & the Calendar Game, as well as my participationRead more …

#KOTW: CFNM, A Male Perspective

Jan 26, 2014 | Posted by in Thoughts on BDSM | 1

I was thrilled when David Wraith, a nationally known writer, filmmaker, activist and one of the founders of Sex Positive St. Louis, agreed to write a post on this week’s topic, Clothed Female Naked Male (CFNM.) There are so many great perspectives about it on the KOTW blog, but I had yet to see oneRead more …

Day Trip

Jan 26, 2014 | Posted by in Before | 0
feet wet

Yesterday I finally got to get out and take an all-day jaunt in the world on my own. I’ve been getting out daily for either a walk or a run, which has been helpful in keeping me sane, but I needed a full day to myself, away from Mom and Grandma, and to see theRead more …

The State of the Bush

Jan 25, 2014 | Posted by in Before | 3

Way back at the beginning of my trip, I mentioned that I was going razor-less for this month while I was in CA. I wish I could say it was some kind of statement I was making, but alas, it wasn’t. It was just laziness and an opportunistic personality on my part: no sex, noRead more …

Non-Consensual Orgasm Denial

Jan 22, 2014 | Posted by in Before | 1

Here’s the part I forgot about when I decided to come out to Sacramento to stay for a month with my Mom and Grandma – no orgasms. This is tragic. We’re not talking about just no sex and no kink, I knew that going in (and believe me, I pondered that long and hard, andRead more …

Calendar Game – December

Jan 20, 2014 | Posted by in Calendar Game, Rope on the Run | 0

First, let me set the stage. It’s 8am. Ad and I are in a hotel in Wichita, snuggled up under the blankets. It snowed last night, hard, and there is a good 5 or 6 inches on the ground. And it’s cold out there. Maybe 15 degrees, with a bitter wind blowing and ice encrusting every surface…

Sinful in Sacramento

Jan 19, 2014 | Posted by in Sinful Sunday | 12
Tit Collars

Okay I wasn’t all that sinful. I just took a drive to Best Buy to solve a technical issue and to a local park to stretch my legs and clear my head. But damn did it feel good to get out and about on my own, with nowhere that I had to go, and noRead more …

Kink of the Week – Biting (My Take)

Jan 18, 2014 | Posted by in BDSM | 1

It’s been awhile since I’ve participated in my own meme. I allowed myself that leeway when I started it, that I wouldn’t force myself to write on each and every topic, but some of them I have been sad to miss. Maybe I’ll get the opportunity to do so later, who knows. I don’t haveRead more …

#KOTW – Biting (Guest Post)

Jan 17, 2014 | Posted by in BDSM | 1

Please welcome my good friend Arcadia Noelle, with a post about biting! One of my absolute favorite things is that moment when teeth sink into flesh. Biting? Yes, please! I still remember the moment biting became a thing for me. I’d always enjoyed being bitten during sex, but up until that moment it had justRead more …