The Look – Flash Fiction & #KOTW

Dec 12, 2014 | Posted by in Jade Melisande, writing | 2

I took a quick break from all the house-sqwee-ing late last week to peruse some of the fun Kink of the Week posts for @Mollysdailykiss’ prompt, “The Look,” and was particularly … moved…yeah, that’s the word (riiight, OK, I was turned on) by Cammies on the Floor’s entry, Look of Intentions. It just so happenedRead more …

Of Skeletons and Secrets

Dec 10, 2014 | Posted by in Thoughts on BDSM, Wicked Wednesday | 14

Welp, here I was all planning to be working too hard on the new house to have any time for writing or blogging or “socialating” (W’s word – really, we need to make it a for-real word) when I was struck down by the flu (or something) bug, and have been laid up in bedRead more …


Dec 4, 2014 | Posted by in Before, blogs, writing | 5

It’s strange how insular – isolated, even – one can become, even out here on the big wide internet.  As a blogger, I have a fairly narrow focus, and belong to a fairly small subset of bloggers, and then within that subset I inhabit an even smaller circle, writing about kink and alternative relationships almostRead more …

Where It Comes From

Oct 13, 2014 | Posted by in Before, Thoughts on BDSM | 3

In case you haven’t noticed, I didn’t post anything for the last two Kink of the Weeks (school girl fetish & gas masks.) I know, I know, I should post something, after all it is my meme, right? But as you also know, if you’ve been following my blog the past year (and in particularRead more …


Sep 3, 2014 | Posted by in BDSM, Thoughts on BDSM, Wicked Wednesday | 7

“Silence” is the prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday. There were a lot of ways I could have gone with this one, and almost did. I could have referenced the many times I have talked about gags here on K&P, or I could have posted pictures of scenes in which W has used them onRead more …

Non-Consensual Vulnerability

Aug 23, 2014 | Posted by in Before, Thoughts on BDSM | 7

Feeling vulnerable is awful, when it’s not by choice. I crave vulnerability in my BDSM play. I live for those moments when I am stripped bare of everything but my need to please, to submit, to give; when I am exposed more than just physically, when my core is laid open to him, to savor,Read more …