Thoughts on BDSM

Of Skeletons and Secrets

Dec 10, 2014 | Posted by in Thoughts on BDSM, Wicked Wednesday | 11

Welp, here I was all planning to be working too hard on the new house to have any time for writing or blogging or “socialating” (W’s word – really, we need to make it a for-real word) when I was struck down by the flu (or something) bug, and have been laid up in bedRead more …

Where It Comes From

Oct 13, 2014 | Posted by in Before, Thoughts on BDSM | 3

In case you haven’t noticed, I didn’t post anything for the last two Kink of the Weeks (school girl fetish & gas masks.) I know, I know, I should post something, after all it is my meme, right? But as you also know, if you’ve been following my blog the past year (and in particularRead more …

Silenced

Sep 3, 2014 | Posted by in BDSM, Thoughts on BDSM, Wicked Wednesday | 7

“Silence” is the prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday. There were a lot of ways I could have gone with this one, and almost did. I could have referenced the many times I have talked about gags here on K&P, or I could have posted pictures of scenes in which W has used them onRead more …

Non-Consensual Vulnerability

Aug 23, 2014 | Posted by in Before, Thoughts on BDSM | 7

Feeling vulnerable is awful, when it’s not by choice. I crave vulnerability in my BDSM play. I live for those moments when I am stripped bare of everything but my need to please, to submit, to give; when I am exposed more than just physically, when my core is laid open to him, to savor,Read more …

A Sexy Swinger Party

Jun 11, 2014 | Posted by in Thoughts on BDSM | 3

Contrary to my recent posts, it hasn’t been all anxiety, doom and gloom here. I mean, there’ve been asshooks, after all: Playing with the #asshook again. In Ws new closet. Because where else are you going to hang a girl up by her ass? pic.twitter.com/wgERtKOw7n — Jade (@piecesofjade) June 5, 2014 And there’s been otherRead more …

Orgasm Control Day 3 – “The Bone”

Apr 15, 2014 | Posted by in BDSM, Thoughts on BDSM | 2
The Bone

His directive on the third day of our experiment with orgasm control was to “Keep the Bone with you at all times.” This is “The Bone.” It’s not actually called that by the manufacturer. To them it’s a “kegel exerciser.” But that was what W called it, obviously based on its shape, and made doublyRead more …