Tag Archives: A Poly Life

More Gratitude Ponderings

Dec 27, 2012 | Posted by in Before | 2

Since it’s still November, I think I’m allowed to keep gushing about how filled with gratitude I am, for my life and the people that make it so wonderful, tho I promise this is going to be a lot shorter than the Great Kinky Novel on gratitude that I wrote earlier.

Innies, Outties & Three-Ways

Mar 5, 2012 | Posted by in Before | 6

I know what kinds of innies, outties and three-ways you’re THINKING I’m talking about. But this post isn’t about what you think it is, considering the title – though things that go in and out and three-ways are delightful topics…and ones I think about often.

The Boys, Me and Keith Urban

Nov 17, 2011 | Posted by in Before | 0

Had an amazingly fun night last night with The Boys. We got back from dinner at our favorite Mexican place, me a little tequila’d up (ok maybe a lot), enough to bring out Sassy Jade. I had on boots and jeans, which I promptly stripped out of to show off the new brown lace panties and bra set I had on…

Relationship Dynamics & Labels

Sep 7, 2011 | Posted by in BDSM, scenes | 1

I recently read a post on Fetlife (Every Relationship is Different, by Lady_Elsa, if you have access to FL) that really resonated with me. I posted it in the Twisted Tryst group on Fet because we are headed there next week, and it seemed to echo so much of the philosophy of that wonderful groupRead more …

In Praise of “Normal Life”

Jul 11, 2011 | Posted by in BDSM | 0

Sometimes in my online readings, by coincidence or fate, I’ll read two very different pieces of writing that will spark thoughts on the same topic, though perhaps (as in this instance) from different perspectives.  A post by Kaya on the nature of her relationship and another on Fearless Press, Living a “Normal” Life, did justRead more …

His Girl

May 21, 2011 | Posted by in BDSM, scenes | 0

“I want you to stay here after it’s over,” he said. “I’ll want to get my girl back.” There are all sorts of aftercare.  I usually tend to think in terms of my needs for it, as do most people; a bottom’s needs for some kind of care after an intense or physically demanding sceneRead more …


May 18, 2011 | Posted by in BDSM, scenes | 0

I got to work yesterday morning, opened my computer bag, and started unpacking everything onto my desk. Laptop, power cord, iPod attachment, bottle of lube, cellphone cord, work folder… Holy shit. Lube?? Lube! I’d forgotten that I had thrown it on top of everything in my computer bag on the way out the door, asRead more …